Eighteen years ago, during a hot August night
A Special Angel from Heaven took a very circuitous flight
He arrived in the world after a difficult pregnancy
Enduring many hardships in the womb, but his life was still meant to be, despite being one month early
He was beautiful, our son, so perfect from head to toe!
Our hearts were bursting with love for this little creature who we would come to know!
He is our Beloved, Our Heart, the Ultimate Gift from above
Our Brian was sent from Heaven, the one we have pledged to love
Then the news was revealed that our baby boy had Down syndrome
We felt so sad in that moment and so utterly alone
It was certainly not the news that any parent wants to hear
And so began the flow of inconsolable, copious tears..
The early days were tough as we watched you struggle and endure
Open heart surgery, an orchiopexy, and medically so much more
You were a brave little soldier, taking everything in your stride
And much to our amazement, and with incredible pride
You conquered, you survived, you grew, and you thrived!
Then Autism decided to show up one awful, snowy day
It threatened and it menaced to take our family’s joy away
Heartbroken and hopeless: now what do we do?!
Don’t worry, Mom and Dad, I know this is way too much for you,
But in time, you will see
That autism, like Down syndrome, truly don’t define me
Yes, these disabilities are not what we planned
They are hard and exhausting, and you will often have to take a stand
On my behalf and always advocate for me
But there is also a richness to my life
If you are willing to see..
My potential and the promise
That the best is yet to be!
Walk along with me on this adventurous journey and you will discover the right priorities!
What really matters is not what you own, or what you do
It’s the love that you give to all, that will mean the most to you
It’s the simple things, that mean so much ,
Like holding a hand or a reassuring touch
Or the lengendary bear hugs that I love to give
To you and to others
And for as long as I live, I will love you with my whole heart, for I know no better way
To show God’s pure love, each and every day
I am yours and I love you both with all of my tender heart
And I have always loved you, Mom and Dad, from my very early start!
Dearest Brian, you make us whole!
You are our soul and our heart!
No matter where life takes us, or whatever we do
We are forever a part of you
We wish you, Son, blessings galore
On your 18th birthday and so much more!
So here are our birthday wishes for you, Beloved Brian:
May God bless you richly in all ways, big and small
May you continue to live your very best life
May you always know how much you’re deeply loved and cherished by family and friends
May you continue to try and learn new things, even when it’s hard and doesn’t make sense
May you continue to face your challenges with courage and grace
May you continue to realize your full potential
May you fulfill your earthly mission as God’s Joy Ambassador to those who need His love
We are so proud of you and always will be!
All Our Love,
Mom and Dad 😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉🎉🍰🍰🍰🎁🎁🎁
4 thoughts on “The Birthday Gift”
So truly touching,,,so much love for God’s joy ambassador….Brian is such a loved part of our extended family, and you and Jim are our heroes…None of us know the depth of your overwhelming challenges bringing Brian to his greatest fulfillment, the thriving, loving young man he is today. The two of you have made that tremendous growth possible… We send so much love to the three of you 💚☘️💚
This is so beautiful, Brenda. You have one amazing family and are so blessed to have one another. Your struggles do not go unnoticed, but look at the incredible progress you have made. Happy eighteenth Birthday to sweet Brian, who has become such a handsome, caring young man achieving so much under the guidance of the two of you, your extended family and everyone in his life who love him so much.
Thank you so much, Rita, for your kind words! We are blessed indeed and so grateful for all of the collective support, hope all is well with you and your family! 😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much, Ann, for your kind words and loving support; it means a lot to us! 😘😘We hope you had a fabulous birthday and enjoyed time with the family, great pics on FB!